You can tell from a quick glance at my blog bio that I'm a stepmother -- but I almost never write about it.
I've had several big reasons to steer clear of the topic. One, I'm not my stepdaughters' mom, and if I were, I don't think I'd be too happy if they had a stepmother writing about their lives on her blog. Two, throughout most of the time I've been blogging, my stepdaughters were teenagers and they certainly didn't need or want me to be writing about them at that sensitive time in their lives. Three, writing about step parenting while you're in the trenches of it is a lot like writing about divorce as you're going through it -- emotions are running rampant and very few writers can steer through the subject with grace and objectivity. Four, and this was a biggie, I often felt like the world's worst stepmother. I mean it. The world's worst.
And who wants to write about that?
Step Moms, Ladies planning on Adopting, going through or thinking of IVF or trying natural methods of getting pregnant.